Guides:Making friends

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Don't worry about making "friends". just do you, act a fool, and join in on random conversations. Enjoy your time, have some interactions, and let friendships happen naturally. This is how many people get their first friends in the game: doing your thing, having fun, and adding people you vibe with. Over time, you'll likely get introduced to friends of friends and expand your circle.

Go with the flow of conversations and act like you're already part of the clique. (Within reason! Don't pretend you're somebody you're not.) It works! No one knows who you are, but they also don't know who you might know, so you're in the clear. Jump in and make yourself known. If you're talking to someone and someone else walks by or stops, greet them. Be the person who welcomes others. It'll pay off when you start recognizing familiar faces.

For example, when sitting in front of a mirror and someone new comes up to do the same, greet them! Find small ways to slip into conversations. You could also bring along a friend you already know and chat with them in public until someone else joins in. Highly populated areas like The Black Cat are great for this. Chill in front of the mirror, talk with your friend, and people will eventually stop by to hang out.

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